Mare Simone, is a certified Tantra Educator, “séx surrogate” who has dedicated her working life to helping men, women and couples overcome their séxual problems.
As a qualified séx therapist, she has given lessons in love to more than 10,000 clients over the past 23 years.
And while she estimates she has had pénetrative séx with 1,500 of them, she insists there is nothing illegal about what she does.
Mare says: “I earn my living by sleeping with other women’s husbands or boyfriends. But I am in no way a prostitute as séx surrogacy is legal, as long as it is done in a therapeutic and healing atmosphere
. People are paying for counseling and to cure their problems — not séx! I am helping to improve and change the séx lives of thousands of men, which means I am also helping improve the séx lives of their wives and girlfriends.”
“Some
women become baby surrogates because they want to help women who can’t
have children. In the same way, I feel drawn to helping others have an
intimate séx life. My job is so fulfilling and enjoyable. Seeing my
customers leave with a new-found séxual confidence is a wonderful
sight.”
Single Mare, from Chelsea, West London, holds around five sessions A DAY and sees people from all walks of life. She says: “My
clients are all ages, shapes, sizes and professions. They have either
been recommended to see me by a séx therapist or former client or they
seek me out through séxual surrogate organizations. The men generally
need help with erection and premature ejaculation problems or have been
sent by their wives because they weren’t pleasing them in bed. Before
they see me, they all have an STD test, and must always use a condom
when seeing me. I also have some women come to me. Their problems are
usually that they can’t orgasm or have had bad lovers. I show them how
to pleasure themselves and make them love their bodies.
“Some
visit me for a few sessions, while others have around 12, depending on
the extent of their problems. All of my sessions start in the same way.
We start by chatting while I caress their hands to make them feel
relaxed and confident with me. During the next few sessions I move to
giving them back and shoulder massages, so the client relaxes further
while talking about their problems.
"Following
that, we do a mirror exercise. This is where the client and I will both
take off our clothes and look at our bodies in the mirror. Usually,
they feel very timid about their bodies and find it difficult to look at
themselves. But when they realize I am not judging them, they begin to
open up and feel confident. At that stage I move on to front body
massages. I take over ‘down below’, showing them how they should be
touching themselves. Finally, it’s time to put everything into
practice. This is the stage of lovemaking, so they can learn how to
control themselves and solve their séxual problems.”
“My
job is basically to make people realize their problems are not just
physical. They are in the mind and have a lot to do with
self-confidence.”
Mare
has not always been so séxually open. At the age of 19, she was raped
by a male friend after accepting a late-night lift home from a party.
Too afraid to report the attack, she lost her confidence in men and séx.
When she married her first husband, Victor, ten years later, she still
could not bear to be touched intimately.
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She recalls: “My
fear of séx put a huge strain on my marriage and I knew deep down it
was due to the rape. Overnight I went from being outgoing to being
introverted. When I did date, I found making love scary and traumatic.
When I married Victor, our séx life was never great and after four years
we divorced but we have remained friends. It was then that a friend
recommended I start reading about tantric séx and séxual surrogacy.
Learning about this unknown world of séxual healing made me feel that
there was hope for me to get my séxual confidence back.”
Mare
decided to take a four-day course in séx therapy, where she learnt
about tantric séx, an ancient Hindu practice that concentrates on a
slower form of séx. “It
was fascinating and during the course I also realized, for the first
time, that the rape I had endured a decade before was not my fault. I
could enjoy séx without feeling dirty, ashamed or guilty.”
Now, Mare spends most of her time working in the US, where she is inundated with clients.
She says: “I
see about four or five people a day and charge around £100 for a
session. Sometimes I will have séx with a husband in front of his wife,
to show them both how to be more sensitive lovers. Often, couples find
just talking openly to a stranger about the problems in their love life
helps in the bedroom.”
Although
she is proud of her job, she still finds it difficult to tell friends
and family about her work. She also does not discuss it with any
potential boyfriends.
She says: “I
usually tell them I am a yoga teacher, until I trust them enough. Some
can’t cope with it and run a mile, while others simply find it
fascinating and are impressed. A few trusted friends know what I do but
my family would be horrified to hear about my daily life. As part of
my work, I regularly do séxual surrogacy tours, travelling the world,
helping people with their most intimate problems. The last time I was
in London I saw 30 clients, some who had booked me months in advance.
It’s amazing how many people in the UK desperately want help with their
séx lives, but have no idea where to turn. There are many séx
surrogates in the US but they are extremely rare in the UK.
“People
have to understand that intimate séx sometimes has to be learned. It
does not come naturally to some people. The stress of modern life can
cause problems and it’s my job to fix that. Since I started surrogacy
work, I have seen more than 10,000 clients and estimate that I have had
pénetrative séx with around 1,500 men. I continue to see clients
weekly. “Witnessing the men and women I help make huge improvements and
feel confident about their bodies is wonderful.
“In
the 20 years I have been doing this job, I have never felt miserable
about going to work. I love what I do and have no plans to retire within
the next ten years.
“I am a séxual healer and so proud and happy that I found my dream job.”
Source: UK Sun
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